Just a few things…

Just me and my crazy thoughts.

A FEW THINGS A WOMAN DESERVES . . .

~Enough money to always take care of herself even if she doesn’t think she’ll ever need it.

~A bucket list that actually gets checked off. 

~Something perfect to wear if the man of her dreams says he’ll pick her up in an hour.

~A treasure chest full of memories that make her blush and laugh when she gets old.

~Necessary things like a hammer and screwdrivers, a drill, and a sassy bra and bloomers that make her feel pretty.

~A friend who makes her laugh, who cries with her when she’s upset, and tells her what she needs to hear.

~Not to pee in her pants when she laughs but enough laughter to make it worthwhile if she does.

~A set of dishes that actually match and wine glasses that get used now and then.

~A feeling and calm in her soul that her future is going to be okay.

~A person in her life that makes her feel safe even if that person has to be her.

A FEW THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD LEARN HOW TO DO . . .

~How to fall in love with herself before falling in love with someone else.

~How to say no gracefully and without regret.

~How to handle confrontation without apology and without fear.

~When to give more and when to stop giving at all.

~Live alone and kill spiders all by herself.

~Trust people without hesitation , , , until she has a reason not to.

~Move on when the reason becomes clear.

~Not to take things personally.

~How to let go of things she takes personally and realize it’s not about her.

~Not to worry about things that may not happen and likely won’t.

~Not to create things in her mind that may not happen and likely won’t.

A FEW THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD REMEMBER . . .

~That she can’t change the way she was raised.

~That people don’t think about her or talk about her nearly as much as she thinks they do.

~That people aren’t always as amazing as their Facebook status says they are.

~The appropriate time to take a nap.

~That it’s always the appropriate time to take a nap if she needs it.

~How not to feel guilty if she takes a nap.

~That life is not perfect and that perfect is boring.

~That she can’t change the size of her boobs without a lot of money.

~That she should love her boobs anyway . . . even as they change.

~That stretch marks are for heroes.

A FEW THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD BELIEVE . . .

~She is a child of God.

~She is beautiful.

~She is worthy.

~She is worthy (did I say that already?)

~She is amazing.

~She means the world to someone. 

~She can change the world even if it’s the world of just one person.

~That one person may occasionally have to be her.

Love you, mean it!  And thank you for being here!

Tracey