Isn’t it the best feeling to have a strong relationship with someone that is just your person? It can be anyone, not just a mate, and it is something we count on most, knowing no matter what we do or say or feel, even if they disagree with us, they are there like a security
self-improvement
Letting Go: Fear of Time
I don’t know about you but with each trip around the sun, I learn more and more about things that don’t matter, things I can’t control, and how to face the fears that have been holding me back. Probably at the top of my ‘fear list’ has been time. We can’t control it so why in
Be Like Peanut Butter.
Peanut butter was just not meant to be spread too thin. . . neither are you! When there’s not enough of you, you are short-changing everyone including yourself. When you can’t say no, when you need to feel needed even at the price of exhaustion, when you don’t want to disappoint anyone… you wind up
Southern Handful.
I am a big ol’ southern handful for some people. I know it, I own it, I admit it, and I kinda wanna apologize for it, and Lord knows, I have many a time, but I’m trying to learn not to. I am who I am. I am loud sometimes. I laugh with a
What happened?
I was looking in the mirror this morning and said, girl, what happened?? Then as I stood there, I thought I’ve earned this face and this body as imperfect as they are. I can love it or hate it but I can’t get away from it, it is me. I then reminded myself that…
Lessons Learned
Lessons I’ve learned: 1. Respect everyone starting with you. Respecting yourself sure gives you understanding on how to love other crazy people. 2. Keep your mind open and give chance a chance. The one you don’t take may be the one to change your life or teach you what not to do next time! 3.
If you can’t change it…
For many, many years I was addicted to Mary Engelbreit art. I love the bright colors and the youthfulness of everything she does! One day, in probably 1995, I came across this one in one of her planners. I fell in love with this image instantly and what it portrays and the words went on
Thoughts have power.
I don’t know about you but I have days in which this crazy mind acts like it wants to focus on my negative list instead of my positive list no matter what I do. Does anyone else do that? I’ll be saying, “Suck it up buttercup” while my brain is saying, “Yeah, but don’t forget
Not My Timing.
Good morning!! I hope you slept like a baby last night. I didn’t but I woke up too excited to sleep so I don’t mind getting up early when that happens! I am going to ask for prayers today! Nothing is wrong, something feels right, and I want so much to trust my heart, I
My list was…
Eat more donuts!!! There you have it, folks, easy peasy! Oh, wow, if only that were true!! Seriously, now (kind of). Since May 20, 2020, I am still down 9.6 pounds. The scales have lingered around that number for a few days which is frustrating! I equate my weight loss to bags of sugar so
I Want an Empty Cup!
I stumbled upon this quote recently and while I’ve heard it many times, it struck me so strongly. I thought about the irony of how I used to feel so empty. That emptiness caused me to feel useless, lost, hopeless… hollow. I thought I could fill it with things, with people, with activities, with work,
There’s No Trophy.
I read an article a few weeks ago called, “There’s no trophy, Ashley.” It was powerful to me! It was based on being a new Mom but the moral applies to all aspects of life! I base this post on Ashley’s article, these are my own words, but I give absolute full credit to the












